the teen girl fantasy and fomo #2

 Hey guys! I'm back and blogging sooo yea. ☺

Incase youre illiterate or something the title of this blog is "the teen girl fantasy and fomo," which could be a tiny bit confusing so let me catch you up. 

 From my experience as a teenage girl, it can be lowk easy to fear missing out. The "teen girl fantasy" is what I can only describe as what you watched on disney channel growing up. 

Yk like everyone's driving a cute convertible on the beach,  there just so happens to be a bunch of cute boys to play volleyball with and even tho u don't play volleyball everyone's rlly good and all is well. Or something like that basically a perfect world where you can be gorgeously overtaken by drama, boys who don't care about you, and a seemingly unlimited amount of money. 

Obvi life isn't like that- and maybe you didn't want it to be. But I still feel like theres an unrealistic expectation of fun summers and aesthetic school years that probs won't come to pass. 

I had this sort of problem a lot of last year where I was so focused on having a good time and being involved with everything I could get my greasy little fingys on. chalso if y made it to here comment ymca bathroom bc I went to the y today and dissociated in the bathroom. Regardless of my fixation, it was totally fun but the excess anxiety was NOT needed yk.

Soooo if youve ever felt like you didn't wanna miss out on having a great teenage experience maybe this is realatable, or maybe im just weird either way the worlds still spinning. The tangable solution is to live in the moment, stop caring about what you think, and focus on the fr important stuff. yes I said what YOU think because 6.7% of the time you are your biggest hater. 

The fr important stuff is sadly sch*ol and not so sadly making connections that last. Dont be afraid to say no to signing up for another thing (yes that also means the stuff that might look good on ur college apps) bc its not worth getting burnt out (which is whatcha girl had to learn the hard way so it cun be dun).

As for fear of missing out, dont. Pretty simple so heres your reminder: WHAT UR DOING IS ENOUGH AND UR NOT BEHIND UR ALL CAUGHT UP GOD HAS YOU WHERE UR MEANT TO B. Back to the program:

All of this isn't to say that you can't dream or vision board or desire a good time. Focus on the here and now and everything else will fall into place trust. Being alive is a phat blessing in itself so be grateful. PLEASE with banana ice cream socials on top- give me ur honest feedback and lmk if this is good or fye or other adjectives u use whatevs I love ya gang bye!!!